Self Help

Stop the porn, premarital sex, and any potential STDs before they become a problem. Don’t allow the world to teach your children about sex. You should take the first step to preventing tragedy, heartbreak, and self-condemnation. Spend the time and effort as parents to organize, read, and study what the best approach is to sex for your children, adolescents, or teenagers. The foundation is a healthy, Christian, educational plan coaching and preparing children for a happy and spiritual marriage, which affects future family generations. The following books are just a few resources to help parents, singles and teenagers choose the best christian approach and plan.

 

BOOKS

Parents:

Children -

Protecting Your Child in an X-Rated World
By: Frank York, Jan LaRue
Focus on the Family / 2002 / Paperback

Hooked: New Science on How Casual Sex Is Affecting Our Children
By: Joe S. McIlhaney Jr. M.D., Freda McKissic Bush M.D.
Moody Publishers / 2008 / Hardcover

Praying the Scriptures for Your Children
By: Jodie Berndt
Zondervan / 2001/ Hardcover

Teaching Your Children Healthy Sexuality: A Biblical Approach to Prepare Them for Life
By: Jim Burns
Bethany House / 2008 / Paperback

The Purity Code: God’s Plan for Sex and Your Body
By: Jim Burns
Bethany House / 2008 / Paperback

More than Just the Talk: Becoming Your Kids’ Go-To Person about Sex
By: Jonathan McKee
Bethany House / 2015 / Paperback

 

Teenagers -

A Parent’s Guide to Understanding Sex and Dating
By: Mark Oestreicher, Joel MaywardGroup
Publishing / 2013 / Paperback

Raising Pure Teens: 10 Strategies to Protect (or Restore) Your Teenager’s Innocence
By: Jason Evert, Chris Stefanick
Catholic Word / 2010 / Paperback

Teaching True Love to a Sex-at-13 Generation
By: Eric Ludy, Leslie Ludy
Thomas Nelson / 2005 / Paperback

Praying the Scriptures for Your Teenagers: Discover How to Pray God’s Will for Their Lives
By: Jodie Berndt
Zondervan / 2007 / Paperback

Boundaries with Teens: When to Say Yes, How to Say No
By: Dr. John Townsend
Zondervan / 2007 / Paperback

“Mom, Sex Is No Big Deal!” Becoming Your Daughter’s Ally in Developing a Healthy Sexual Identity
By: Sharon A. Hersh
Random House / 2006 / Paperback

 

Don’t follow your mains or give in to peer pressure sex that you know is not what Christ wants you to do. It’s difficult to be a teenager in school where everyone is trying to be swag. Any of your mains that want you to look at porn or have sex are boosting and flexing. Porn and premarital sex leads to relationship problems with your future wife or husband. It is cray to allow others to control your life. Find the words to say that will get you out of situations where peer pressure is too difficult to deal with. These Christian sources can be a guide to help you understand what it means to be pure in Christ.

 

Teenagers:

Dating, Relating, Waiting: God’s Word on Purity
By: Michael Ross, Tiffany Ross
GoTandem / 2015 / Paperback

Every Teenager’s Little Black Book on Sex and Dating
By: Blaine Bartel
Harrison House / 2002 / Paperback

Sex Before Marriage: How Far Is Too Far?
By: Timothy S. Lane
New Growth Press / 2009 / Paperback

So You’re About to be a Teenager
By: Dennis Rainey, Barbara Rainey
Thomas Nelson / 2003 / Paperback

Sex and the Christian Teen
By: Jim Auer
Liguori Publications / 1994 / Paperback

 

Church Leaders:

Forbidden Fruit: Sex & Religion in the Lives of American Teenagers
By: Mark Regnerus
Oxford University Press / 2007 / Hardcover

Hooked: New Science on How Casual Sex Is Affecting Our Children
By: Joe S. McIlhaney Jr. M.D., Freda McKissic Bush M.D.
Moody Publishers / 2008 / Hardcover

The Naked Truth Leaders’ Guide
By: Lakita Garth
Revell / 2007 / Paperback

The True Love Project: How the Gospel Defines Your Purity (Leaders’ Guide)
By: Clayton King
Lifeway / 2013 / Paperback

The True Love Project: How the Gospel Defines Your Purity (Leaders’ Guide)
By: Clayton King
Lifeway / 2013 / Paperback

 

Singles:

Love, Sex and Lasting Relationships: God’s Prescription for Enhancing Your Love Life
By: Chip Ingram
Baker Books / 2015 / Paperback

Why Wait?: What Singles Need to Know about Sex and Dating
By: Laura Gallier
Destiny Image / 2009 / Paperback

Sex, God, and the Single Life: An Honest Journey to Satisfying Intimacy
By: Hafeez Baoku
CLC Publications / 2014 / Trade Paperback

Sex before Marriage: How Far Is Too Far?
By: Timothy S. Lane
New Growth Press / 2009 / Paperback

Sex and the Single Girl: Smart Ways to Care for Your Heart
By: Ellen Dykas
New Growth Press / 2012 / Trade Paperback

Sex and the Single Person
By: Barbara John
Xulon Press / 2004 / Paperback

 

DVD RESOURCES

Teenagers:

Sex & Love: What’s a Teenager to Do?
By: Mary Beth Bonacci

Teen Relationships and Sexual Pressure
By: Jason Evert and Ellen Marie

Sex as God’s Gift, with PDFs, DVD
By: Mary Ronan

Sex, Love and Relationships (Abridged Version)
By: Pam Stenzel

 

Singles:

I Kissed Dating Goodbye
By: Joshua Harris

Love, Sex and Lasting Relationships
By: Chip Ingram

The New Rules for Love Sex & Dating
By: Andy Stanley

 

Church Leaders:

Live Different: What The Bible Says about Sex and Holiness
By: youthministry360

The Truth about Sex DVD Curriculum
By: Doug Fields

Naked Truth DVD Curriculum
By: Lakita Garth

The True Love Project: How the Gospel Defines Your Purity
By: Clayton King

Song of Solomon Students’ DVD Curriculum
By: Tommy Nelson